Problems & Pain

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Life is difficult.

This is great truth and one of the greatest truths. 

It is said that life is difficult, and this is certainly true. We all face problems and pain daily. Whether it’s the death of a loved one, financial problems, relationship issues, or just the stresses of daily life, we all have to deal with difficult situations.

But it’s important to remember that life is also full of beautiful moments. We experience joy, love, laughter, and fulfillment in our lives as well. It’s important to focus on these positive aspects of life, even amid difficulties. 

By doing so, we can put our problems into perspective and better deal with them. Life may be difficult, but it’s also an incredible gift that is worth living to the fullest.

It is only when we face problems and pain that we really appreciate how strenuous life can be. We all have problems and difficulties, and life is difficult for anyone. No one escapes problems, pain, or difficulties.

 Life can be extremely difficult, and it is only when we are faced with these challenges that we realize just how tough it can be. It is during these times that we need to be extra strong, dig deep within ourselves, and find the courage and resilience to keep going.

 Once we truly know that life is difficult-once we see the world with clear eyes and open hearts-we can transcend the problems and pain that life inevitably brings our way. 

This does not mean that we will no longer experience problems or pain, but it means that we will see these challenges in a new light. Instead of being defeated by our problems, we can view them as opportunities for growth and transformation.

 By embracing the fact that life is difficult, we can find the strength and resilience to meet any challenge that comes our way.

We all face problems in life. Some problems are enormous and some are small, but they all have the power to cause us pain. The way we deal with our problems can have a profound impact on our lives. Do we moan about them or do we try to solve them? Do we give up or do we keep going? The choice is ours.

If we want to teach our children to be problem-solvers, then we need to model that behavior for them. We need to show them it’s okay to make mistakes and that it’s important to keep trying. We need to help them understand problems are a natural part of life and that we can overcome them with perseverance and determination. By teaching our children how to deal with life. They will be adults one day and you don’t want them to be shocked that we live in a world with pain & problems. Why do we try to protect or avoid our children with problems?

Because confronting and solving problems is painful. We are all guilty of trying to avoid or disregard our problems. They are uncomfortable feelings and often very uncomfortable.

 And since life poses an endless series of problems, life is always difficult and is full of pain and joy! 

I say that we often attempt to avoid our problems and pain by substituting them with sex, drugs, and rock & roll.

 However, what many of us cannot realize is that this only serves to make the problem and the pain more intense. It is a vicious cycle that often leads to an even bigger mess.

 By numbing our problems with these temporary pleasures, we are only avoiding the inevitable pain that we will have to face. It is better to deal with the problems head-on, rather than trying to escape from them.

 Only then can we heal and move on with our lives.

We avoid the legitimate suffering that results from dealing with problems, we also avoid the growth that problems demand from us. 

Fortunately, however, some possess the courage to face their neurosis and begin the help with a therapist to learn how to experience legitimate suffering. 

In order to have a mature and committed relationship, we have to experience problems and pain. We must be able to understand that problems are a natural and necessary part of life and that they can actually help us grow in our relationships.

 If we are unwilling to experience problems and pain, we can never have the deep, committed relationships we desire.

Without healing, the human heart begins to shrivel.

You don’t have to do life alone…

Nancy Duarte

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